Comments for Never mind the blood; dig deeper. http://exhumation.wordpress.com Fuck what you think you know. Sun, 15 Nov 2009 18:57:26 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on One Moment At At A Time. by Brainscum http://exhumation.wordpress.com/2009/11/13/one-moment-at-at-a-time/#comment-95 Brainscum Sun, 15 Nov 2009 18:57:26 +0000 http://exhumation.wordpress.com/?p=537#comment-95 First of all, and please don't take this out of context, don't tell me what to do. I understand fully where you are coming from, and to some degree, I agree. However, there is a lot about the situation that you don't seem to understand (not a dig), and there are some reasons that he IS to blame for at least some of the ways that I feel. Like I said, I don't always deal with it very well, but he also understands where I am coming from (some of the time) and I'm not making his life a living hell by saying the things I say. In many ways it is a very sticky clusterfuck of a situation, and again, though I appreciate and understand where you are coming from, I would also appreciate you getting of my back. I know why I feel the way I feel, and I don't always blame him. Where he is responsible, though, I will hold him responsible. Period. First of all, and please don’t take this out of context, don’t tell me what to do.
I understand fully where you are coming from, and to some degree, I agree. However, there is a lot about the situation that you don’t seem to understand (not a dig), and there are some reasons that he IS to blame for at least some of the ways that I feel. Like I said, I don’t always deal with it very well, but he also understands where I am coming from (some of the time) and I’m not making his life a living hell by saying the things I say. In many ways it is a very sticky clusterfuck of a situation, and again, though I appreciate and understand where you are coming from, I would also appreciate you getting of my back. I know why I feel the way I feel, and I don’t always blame him. Where he is responsible, though, I will hold him responsible. Period.

]]> Comment on One Moment At At A Time. by her http://exhumation.wordpress.com/2009/11/13/one-moment-at-at-a-time/#comment-94 her Sun, 15 Nov 2009 17:59:43 +0000 http://exhumation.wordpress.com/?p=537#comment-94 If you want him to be happy, stop blaming him for how you feel. That's all I really have to say about it. I don't hate you. If you want him to be happy, stop blaming him for how you feel. That’s all I really have to say about it.

I don’t hate you.

]]> Comment on One Moment At At A Time. by Brainscum http://exhumation.wordpress.com/2009/11/13/one-moment-at-at-a-time/#comment-93 Brainscum Fri, 13 Nov 2009 21:29:58 +0000 http://exhumation.wordpress.com/?p=537#comment-93 Don't apologize to me. I'm glad you finally said something. And I am aware that he is allowed to be happy. You don't understand how badly I want him to be. In fact, there is a lot you don't understand, no matter how similar a situation you have been in. I'm not trying to be rude with that one, I'm just saying. Please just stop hating me for no reason. I don't deal with the situation very well, but I do the best I can, okay? Don’t apologize to me.

I’m glad you finally said something.

And I am aware that he is allowed to be happy. You don’t understand how badly I want him to be. In fact, there is a lot you don’t understand, no matter how similar a situation you have been in. I’m not trying to be rude with that one, I’m just saying.

Please just stop hating me for no reason. I don’t deal with the situation very well, but I do the best I can, okay?

]]> Comment on One Moment At At A Time. by Her/She/whateverthehellelseyouwanttocallme http://exhumation.wordpress.com/2009/11/13/one-moment-at-at-a-time/#comment-92 Her/She/whateverthehellelseyouwanttocallme Fri, 13 Nov 2009 18:14:59 +0000 http://exhumation.wordpress.com/?p=537#comment-92 You are entitled to how you feel and you have every right to say whatever you want. Your blog, your words, feelings, thoughts, and if anyone takes offense, they shouldn't read your blog, right? I'm not personally offended. I'm not upset. I shouldn't even read your blog. Hell, when I do, I feel like I'm invading your privacy. But I tell myself that if you wanted privacy, you wouldn't publish your diary on a public forum such as the internet. Anyway, all I wanted to say is that "He" is also allowed to be happy. "He" is allowed to move forward with his life. As are you, and it's not his "fucking fault" that you won't (or can't) do that for yourself right now. In short, YOU are holding yourself back, you should stop blaming "Him." And to give myself some credibility to say anything about it: I was in your situation once... except my ex was married at this point in the timeline. 40 days after the end to a 3+ year relationship he was engaged, and at 4 months, he was married. I've been there. I covered the emotion with alcohol and sex. I think you're doing a much, much better job of dealing with the situation than I did, I just know that your words have a big impact on "him," and I don't like seeing "him" upset over what you write in your blog. Anyway, I'm sorry, I just couldn't hold my thoughts in anymore... You are entitled to how you feel and you have every right to say whatever you want. Your blog, your words, feelings, thoughts, and if anyone takes offense, they shouldn’t read your blog, right?

I’m not personally offended. I’m not upset. I shouldn’t even read your blog. Hell, when I do, I feel like I’m invading your privacy. But I tell myself that if you wanted privacy, you wouldn’t publish your diary on a public forum such as the internet.

Anyway, all I wanted to say is that “He” is also allowed to be happy. “He” is allowed to move forward with his life. As are you, and it’s not his “fucking fault” that you won’t (or can’t) do that for yourself right now. In short, YOU are holding yourself back, you should stop blaming “Him.”

And to give myself some credibility to say anything about it: I was in your situation once… except my ex was married at this point in the timeline. 40 days after the end to a 3+ year relationship he was engaged, and at 4 months, he was married. I’ve been there. I covered the emotion with alcohol and sex. I think you’re doing a much, much better job of dealing with the situation than I did, I just know that your words have a big impact on “him,” and I don’t like seeing “him” upset over what you write in your blog.

Anyway, I’m sorry, I just couldn’t hold my thoughts in anymore…

]]> Comment on One Moment At At A Time. by sosexywhenimoutofcontrol http://exhumation.wordpress.com/2009/11/13/one-moment-at-at-a-time/#comment-91 sosexywhenimoutofcontrol Fri, 13 Nov 2009 15:40:47 +0000 http://exhumation.wordpress.com/?p=537#comment-91 > Because you don't need to explain yourself. You are entitled to how you feel and you have every right you say whatever the hell you want and FUCK ANYONE WHO TAKES OFFENSE. > Because you don’t need to explain yourself. You are entitled to how you feel and you have every right you say whatever the hell you want and FUCK ANYONE WHO TAKES OFFENSE.

]]> Comment on One Moment At At A Time. by sosexywhenimoutofcontrol http://exhumation.wordpress.com/2009/11/13/one-moment-at-at-a-time/#comment-90 sosexywhenimoutofcontrol Fri, 13 Nov 2009 15:34:49 +0000 http://exhumation.wordpress.com/?p=537#comment-90 I think it was better without the edit. I think it was better without the edit.

]]> Comment on She Shines. by Brainscum http://exhumation.wordpress.com/2009/11/10/she-shines/#comment-89 Brainscum Thu, 12 Nov 2009 01:05:37 +0000 http://exhumation.wordpress.com/?p=535#comment-89 9-10 days from now. 9-10 days from now.

]]> Comment on She Shines. by sosexywhenimoutofcontrol http://exhumation.wordpress.com/2009/11/10/she-shines/#comment-88 sosexywhenimoutofcontrol Thu, 12 Nov 2009 00:04:01 +0000 http://exhumation.wordpress.com/?p=535#comment-88 When are you wanting to come home? When are you wanting to come home?

]]> Comment on Representative. by sj http://exhumation.wordpress.com/2009/11/09/representative/#comment-87 sj Mon, 09 Nov 2009 23:40:13 +0000 http://exhumation.wordpress.com/?p=533#comment-87 I know you don't want to hear it, but you really shouldn't be working out that much, especially if you are vomiting/not eating enough. You will end up in the hospital. I know you don’t want to hear it, but you really shouldn’t be working out that much, especially if you are vomiting/not eating enough. You will end up in the hospital.

]]> Comment on Epiphany. by sosexywhenimoutofcontrol http://exhumation.wordpress.com/2009/10/27/epiphany/#comment-86 sosexywhenimoutofcontrol Mon, 02 Nov 2009 01:52:28 +0000 http://exhumation.wordpress.com/?p=520#comment-86 Did you send something to PostSecret? Did you send something to PostSecret?

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